Epiphany of the day
I see now that anxiety, fear, or worry are products of the illusion of Control. (I capitalize it.) If I think I am in control of other people (and therefore responsible for their behavior) and they are not doing what I want, I worry about how I am going to get their compliance. All based on faulty logic. I am not in control of them. I am not responsible for their behavior. Therefore, worry is futile.
Now, I am responsible for me, for sometimes meting out punishments, for dealing with outcomes, and for trying to make good conditions. But people choose and I can't change that.
What a relief.